Yay for Laura! I just hope she can get them to take "Project Runway finalist" off of the cover - it looks tacky the way it's situated, and it's probably unnecessary, since the book isn't directly based in fashion.

Fabulous!!! Love the cover!!!

I look forward to seeing her on the promotional tour.

If it generates anything like the discussion on The Daily Beast, there should be some interesting interviews.

I am super excited for this book! It will be great!

Congrats Laura!

CAN'T. WAIT.

Congrats, Laura!

Good for her, but that cover is kind of making me wince. Make it work!

Sounds rather like a cross between Claire Huxtable & Roseanne!

I can't wait.

SisterZip

Oh my God, even Frank is on the cover LOL

Awesome!

Yeah for Laura!

My only request: please don't take Jane Lynch away from "Glee." How about getting Megan Mullally to play Laura instead? I can't bear to lose my Sue Sylvester. : )

Is it going to be available for Kindle?

"Sony Entertainment optioned the book to be adapted as a scripted television comedy, with Jamie Tarses as executive producer."

Fantastic! Keep us posted!

yay!!! I just saw the ad about the book in your page, but I was a little disappointed that it is not coming for the Holidays.... I guess since it's in April it can be a perfect birthday present for me! :-)
I love Laura's column at the Daily Beast, so I'm sure I will love the book.
and a TV show!!! wow! that's awesome... somebody said Megan Mullaly to play Laura, that sounds about right....

Well, if it's as good as my Ma's old Erma Bombeks...

Ha! I love the title of the book. I'm definitely getting a copy for me and my mom, we both love Laura.

YAY! Congratulations, Laura, on the book and WOW on the Fox pilot! I vote for Patricia Clarkson to star!

Congrats to Laura!

And looking at that cover, I got a picture of Laura being played by Kristin Johnston (of 3rd Rock from the Sun).

--GothamTomato

Oh how cute.

A spoiled upper class woman who leaves the parenting to the help is going to amuse us with anecdotes about spoiled upper class parenting.

I think I'll take a pass on this one.

LOVE HER!

how exciting for everyone :)

How wonderful is THAT? The book is achievement enough (well, actually raising all those kids is the ultimate) and the possibly of a TV show is fabulous.

I'm delighted for her!

I rooted for Laura on Project Runway and respect her approach to parenting. But isn't it hypocritical for her to bemoan all the parenting books and blogs that supposedly make mothers neurotic when, in the Daily Beast and in the book she claims that "the only way to survive it all" is to have a sense of humor? As funny and insightful as the book may be, for moms who do not have Laura's approach, isn't it just another "you're not doing it right," neurosis-invoking parenting guide. Isn't she just adding to the pile? Personally, I'd rather see Laura get back to designing - perhaps easy but stylish clothes for the busy mom or expectant mom.

Great news! I can't wait to read her book.

Love her!

GAWD how I love her!

Ohmigosh, a sitcom - what a perfect format! Hope that works out.

Shall we TLo posters cast it?

Must go think....

I like Kristen Johnston.

Another fabulous comedienne (although not very tall) - Julie White!

Is that supposed to be a picture of Laura on the cover? Because it doesn't look like her.

Oh don't be hating on Bad Mommy.

She is a role model to those of us with loads of kids who live in the middle of nowhere and take wine to innumerable child sporting events in stainless steel coffee mugs and wear a good pair of pointy heels to the market.

I. Can. Not. Wait.

Suz

Good for her!

Eat your heart out, Santino!

Can't. Wait!

As funny and insightful as the book may be, for moms who do not have Laura's approach, isn't it just another "you're not doing it right," neurosis-invoking parenting guide. Isn't she just adding to the pile?

The moms who don't have Laura's approach are possibly already neurotic and would likely pass on this being a serious guide on the title alone, kwim? It strikes me as more of something akin to the existing Girlfriends Guides--to pregancy, toddlers, et cetera--which is a very good thing. I have only half her number of children (all boys, tho') and so love seeing the humour (sometimes WAY after the fact) in less-that-stellar parenting moments.

Color me bored. I don't get your fascination with this woman.

I'm doing a desk dance of joy . . .and one of frustration that it's not out until April.

Very good news. Looking forward to both!

Anonymous said...
Oh how cute.
A spoiled upper class woman who leaves the parenting to the help is going to amuse us with anecdotes about spoiled upper class parenting.

I think I'll take a pass on this one.

Spoiled? Really?
Because she refuses to adhere to some worthless haterade standard of motherhood that reeks of soiled sweatpants & defeat?
Are you saying if you could afford to hire help, you wouldn't? HA!
& there's a big difference between hired help & having the help take responsibility for raising your children. I sincerely doubt, by what I've read & seen, Laura does the latter. Given that's the proof most of us have (TLo excluded since they know her personally), what do you possess about her to dispute that assertion?

Laura Bennett is, in my opinion, the embodiment of the modern American woman; independent (she was an architect in her own right before marrying P. Shelton), intelligent, stylish, hilarious and while not taking herself too seriously, takes her right to love her life seriously. And she's a mother of 6! What's not to respect?

As for who'll play her in the sitcom, I have 3 choices:
Brooke Shields
Angie Harmon
Sela Ward

Thanks for all of the inspiration, Laura! You are Fabulous!
Already pre-ordered & looking forward to your book!

On to the old wishlist at Amazon!

I went to the book website and read the intro - hilarious, classic Laura. Yup, this book is sure to elicit a wide range of reactions. I happen to agree with her parenting style, but some people take parenting so deathly seriously they view it as a personal attack on themselves. The book looks like a fun read; I will preorder on Amazon-it will give me something to look forward to in April. Party on Laura!

I loved the intro! I think she is right on, but like someone here said some will take it as an attack on them for being another way when what she is saying is to each his own and this way happens to work for her.

Amy Sez..

Can't wait! Laura is a breath of fresh air. I'm sick of "Martyre Moms" who aren't happy unless they are miserable. I love my kids too, but Mommy needs a break once in a while. A break and a beer or two.

I heart Laura!

A view from the other side of The Nanny Diaries.

Pass.

BWAH!!, CroqueMonsieur. Great catch. LOVE that Frank is on the cover with her. Hope it does well.

I loathe, hate, and despise Laura, simply because she can afford to raise 6 kids in NY, and I can barely keep a roof over mine in a much cheaper state.:(
But I do love her sparkly dresses.

"As funny and insightful as the book may be, for moms who do not have Laura's approach, isn't it just another "you're not doing it right," neurosis-invoking parenting guide. Isn't she just adding to the pile?"
Geez Louise--it isn't suppose to be some sort of self-help book. It is a collection of funny and amusing essays on the topic of parenthood! Haven't you ever read Erma Bombeck or better yet Jean Kerr. Jean was the wife of the New York Times theatre critic and she was an author and playright. She had six? children and raised them in New York City too. And what is so wrong in getting some help with your children,your house and so forth. Being so jealous and envious of someone you only think you know is shallow, petty, and stupid.

I don't like books with kids in them. But I hope she sells alot.

Go anonymii, go. Sling whatever crap you want without putting your name to it. It makes it easier for us to find posts worth reading.
(and that is directed to the posting lurkers who know how to put a name on their post, but don't.)

In the meantime, Tlo, I once won an autographed pic of said Laura for coming in third on a naming contest for her comic strip with Robert Best. It never arrived! Now I'll never get one!! (hint,hint)

I meant anonymous users.Apparently anonymii isn't a word.

And I am signing this post with a name.
path

path, we didn't know that. We don't have any way of knowing if any of our prizewinners receive their prizes unless they contact us directly. Please email us at tomandlorenzo@gmail.com

Great! Can't wait, gentlemen!

"anon said: As for who'll play her in the sitcom, I have 3 choices:
Brooke Shields
Angie Harmon
Sela Ward"




They're not funny. The lead in a sitcom should be funny.

--GothamTomato

"anon said: A spoiled upper class woman who leaves the parenting to the help is going to amuse us with anecdotes about spoiled upper class parenting."



As opposed to a low class slob who raises their brood on Cheetos & Mountain Dew?

Since the media insists on rabbiting on about mommies at every turn, I'd prefer listening to one with an intelligent sense of humor (Laura), instead of those whiny, self-righteous mommies who mistake childbirth for stigmata.

--GothamTomato

I'm going to put Julie White in. Again.

Julie! Julie!

If the book is as awesome as her columns in The Daily Beast, I know I'm going to love it!

And I think there should be a disclaimer on the cover to warn away those who take parenting VERY VERY VERY SERIOUSLY (!), lack a sense of humor or have parenting-resentment issues to stay away. Because I have kids myself and I love our Bad Mommy.

The Fru-Gals said...

Oh don't be hating on Bad Mommy.

She is a role model to those of us with loads of kids who live in the middle of nowhere and take wine to innumerable child sporting events in stainless steel coffee mugs and wear a good pair of pointy heels to the market.

I. Can. Not. Wait.

Suz



LOVE YOU, SUZ!

I don't know why we're pretending that this is the mother to not wear sweat pants. There are mothers who are professionals all over this country - they just don't all go on tv and tell us how special they are.

GothamTomato said...

"anon said: As for who'll play her in the sitcom, I have 3 choices:
Brooke Shields
Angie Harmon
Sela Ward"


They're not funny. The lead in a sitcom should be funny.

--GothamTomato

Since Brooke Shields was nominated for her guest starring role on "Friends" & had her own sitcom for 2 seasons (Suddenly Susan), I don't agree w/ you.
Sela Ward's series "Sisters" had several very funny episodes, as did her series "Once & Again", plus her turn as "Frasier's Imaginary Friend" on said sitcom was hilarious.
Angie Harmon I'll give you.
(She has Laura's cool)
But I'd toss them all for Patricia Clarkson-- Southern (Born in New Orleans), Titian tressed, refined, smart, funny, sexy-- the perfect Laura.

I think she's an annoyingly smug, preening "designer" who has no vision. If it weren't for her skills as a seamstress she'd never have made it to Bryant Park. Laura Bennett has made a career out of declaring how fabulous Laura Bennet is, and that just makes me tired. And showing up to the PR set with a set of matching Louis Vuitton suitcases? Oh, jeez. Is she really so pathetically insecure, and unimaginative, that she had to blow $10,000 on ugly luggage just to flash her husband's cash? Couldn't she at least have bought something beautiful and interesting, instead of that ugly, trite, overexposed, boring, monogrammed crap that reeks of desperation and new money? -victoria

Newsflash folks . . . questioning, critcizing, or having a different interpretation of Laura's work other than she is the best thing since chocolate cake does not mean that you hate her or are jealous of her.

Anonymous said...

I think she's an annoyingly smug, preening "designer" who has no vision. If it weren't for her skills as a seamstress she'd never have made it to Bryant Park. Laura Bennett has made a career out of declaring how fabulous Laura Bennet is, and that just makes me tired. And showing up to the PR set with a set of matching Louis Vuitton suitcases? Oh, jeez. Is she really so pathetically insecure, and unimaginative, that she had to blow $10,000 on ugly luggage just to flash her husband's cash? Couldn't she at least have bought something beautiful and interesting, instead of that ugly, trite, overexposed, boring, monogrammed crap that reeks of desperation and new money? -victoria


Hahahahahahahahahahaha.
Are you a bag reader?

And showing up to the PR set with a set of matching Louis Vuitton suitcases? Oh, jeez. Is she really so pathetically insecure, and unimaginative, that she had to blow $10,000 on ugly luggage just to flash her husband's cash? Couldn't she at least have bought something beautiful and interesting, instead of that ugly, trite, overexposed, boring, monogrammed crap that reeks of desperation and new money? -victoria

Actually it's vintage LV that used to belong to her mother in law.

OK...why not Laura playing Laura?

No?

Then what about Debra Messing?

Skinny, tall, gorge, red head, loves the gays and is pretty damn funny. She also looks like a drinka (as they say here in N'ompshire)

She could go to that NYC salon, sit outside and smoke while they chemically straighten the bejesus out of her hair, just like our Laura.

Suz

Tlo said:

"Actually it's vintage LV that used to belong to her mother in law".

OK now I fucking hate her.

The best I could do with these relations is some hard sided Samsonite circa 1973.

Suz

WANT. WANT. WANT WANT WANT WANT WANTWANTWANTWANTWANT NOOOOOOOOOW

Brian is right! "Project Runway finalist on the cover" is tacky. It reduces her. Also, unless you're into PR, it would be a turn-off. She would be dismissed by the rest of the world as a minor reality show contestant, which is so not what she's about. So glad you got the first post, Brian...it has a good chance of being seen and noted.

I sincerely hope that she speaks openly about having a house keeper and a couple of nannies helping her out with some of the more mundane aspects of life.

Leaving readers with the false impression that she somehow does this all on her own (when she doesn't)isn't really going to add anything to the mix, especially when it seems like moms are constantly being bombarded with ridiculous standards that makeup the modern minefield that is life. It's akin to the Martha Stewart syndrome: "Here, be an uber-housewife: never mind that my staff rivals the cast of thousands in a Cecil B DeMille production".

Otherwise, having read some of her blog entries on the Daily Beast, I can say that she does tell some funny stories.

The book cover kinda looks like a Photoshop disaster...

And no, I don't begrudge her her wealth, notoriety, or anything else: If she can afford to hire people to help that's great. It's pretending that one does it all on one's own that is annoying to me.

Laura Bennett never said every woman out there should follow her. I don't understand all the resentment. She writes about HER LIFE, and let me tell you, there are a LOT of women like her out there, with money, with nannies, with Louis Vuitton bags, get over it.

"Stephanie said...

And no, I don't begrudge her her wealth, notoriety, or anything else: If she can afford to hire people to help that's great. It's pretending that one does it all on one's own that is annoying to me."

She's been open about the help she gets and how lucky she is. Read her columns before you accuse her of something that isn't true.

Very excited about her new book. Thanks for the post, tlo!

YAY!!! I love Bad Mommy!

MelissaTehr said...

"She's been open about the help she gets and how lucky she is. Read her columns before you accuse her of something that isn't true."

I have read her blog entries, and I pointed that out in my first post. Maybe you should read that post, too, before you accuse me of something that isn't true. Doh!

This inspired me to go back and look at her BP show, especially since my eyes felt like they needed a vacation after this season.

The grey beaded dress with chartreuse belt?

Bad Mommy, I can never quit you after that. You deserve all the success in the world.

Whoever said Deb Mess up thread... Yes, please!!!

Anonymous 6:32 said:
I think she's an annoyingly smug, preening "designer" who has no vision. If it weren't for her skills as a seamstress she'd never have made it to Bryant Park. Laura Bennett has made a career out of declaring how fabulous Laura Bennet is, and that just makes me tired. And showing up to the PR set with a set of matching Louis Vuitton suitcases? Oh, jeez. Is she really so pathetically insecure, and unimaginative, that she had to blow $10,000 on ugly luggage just to flash her husband's cash? Couldn't she at least have bought something beautiful and interesting, instead of that ugly, trite, overexposed, boring, monogrammed crap that reeks of desperation and new money? -victoria

-------------
Whatever....I think Ms. Bennett is fabulous, LV luggage and all (it's hand me down luggage). And she can hand bead the he// out of a dress. I love the Bad Mommy!!!!

Looks like I've got something to add to my Christmas list. Well, for next year since it won't be out in time for this year :P

" Stephanie said...
MelissaTehr said...

"She's been open about the help she gets and how lucky she is. Read her columns before you accuse her of something that isn't true."

I have read her blog entries, and I pointed that out in my first post. Maybe you should read that post, too, before you accuse me of something that isn't true. Doh!"


Yes, I did read your post in which you said the following:

"It's pretending that one does it all on one's own that is annoying to me."

Maybe you should reread her blog entries, because she has an entire entry about her nannies and all the help she gets.

OK, well, I guess I have to forgive her for the LV luggage -- or at least, I can't blame her for being so vulgar as to BUY it.

But I still think she thinks way too highly of herself, give her lack of design talent. Meow. -victoria

Anonymous said...
OK, well, I guess I have to forgive her for the LV luggage.

You have to forgive her??

I think you should stop judging people based on their accessories and/or your preconceived notions of them.

LOL!
I love reading the posts of all of the people who could never be as successful, accomplished or fabulous as La Laura so they have to denigrate something about her; whether it's her luggage (! How is LV anything vulgar?) or her household help or her designs.
Hope it makes you feel better!

So funny people's reaction to Ms Laura.
I don't agree with all she says, and my life looks nothing like hers, but I think she's FAB. So New York, so glam and down-to-earth at the same time. A Uptown/boho combo life that successful creatives make for themselve.

Good luck!

i know this would take the tv show in a different direction but my casting suggestion -

miss coco peru

"anon said: A spoiled upper class woman who leaves the parenting to the help is going to amuse us with anecdotes about spoiled upper class parenting."



As opposed to a low class slob who raises their brood on Cheetos & Mountain Dew?"

Yep, those are definitely the only two types of mothers in the United States.

Wow, nothing like "intelligent" discourse.

I don't know Laura Bennett, but I don't like what I know of her. I don't find her especially entertaining. I appreciate her sense of humor, but I hardly think she is a role model for the Cheeto-chomping, redneck masses that apparently constitute the United States outside of New York City.

There are plenty of fabulous, independent, professional women in the United States who are mothers. Some are good, some are not so good. I like a lot of them more than I like her (or how she represents herself).

Name-calling hardly seems necessary. Is she really all that important? She's fun and frivolous and superficially entertaining, and I don't think she's worth getting all that worked up about, whether pro or con. She's extending her 15 minutes, that is for sure.

Oh, and she's definitely as thin as many of the folks who are pilloried for being "too thin," "cadaverous," "bony," etc.

Anonymous (6:15) said...

"I'd toss them all for Patricia Clarkson-- Southern (Born in New Orleans), Titian tressed, refined, smart, funny, sexy-- the perfect Laura."

Oooooh, good choice, Anon. Patricia Clarkson would make an amazing Laura B. And how fabulous was she in "Whatever Works?" Patricia's cool, witty, funny, sharp and very much the modern woman. Perrrfection! Can't wait for the book. And a book tour is an absolute must! (Hear that Laura Bennett?)

Congratulations!

- edina -

I like Laura and think she is funny - as much as I know - I am a casual fan.

But on the tangent - of LV.
I really had never heard of LV when (I was in - a public - college ) an acquaintance who went to a private school tells me about her roommate getting a LV bag for her birthday - I think it was over a grand, with a few $100 bills stuck in in. She tells me that the gal thought that was too extravagent so she exchanged it for a "cheaper" bag - I think it was "only $600 (and she pocketed the cash. *This was the early 80s!!

I still cannot relate.

But now that I travel all the time for work - I cannot imagine how the heck that luggage would hold up - seriously I am constantly getting new luggage since the airlines beat the hell out of my bags. They can't make it more than 1 flight without marks.

PATH says: In the meantime, Tlo, I once won an autographed pic of said Laura for coming in third on a naming contest for her comic strip with Robert Best. It never arrived! Now I'll never get one!! (hint,hint)

Actually Path, I came in third in that contest! You must have beat me! I emailed TLO and they hooked me up with the autographed photo. The most exciting part (this is embarrassing to admit) was that it came in a mailing envelope and I recognized Laura's handwriting where she had written my address. Looked like the handwriting we saw her do on her sketches on the show.

I am a total Laura-phile (and dork, clearly). In fact, that's how I found the TLO blog - early in season 3 I googled her name and found Project Rungay. Oh, happy day.

I think Tea Leoni would make a good Laura.

Finally, Laura - if you are reading this - I am a working TV writer living in LA! I don't want a job (already employed) but if you need any advice - I would do anything to help. Do you already have a west coast gay?

Anonymous @ 11/11/09 8:55 PM said...

LOL!
I love reading the posts of all of the people who could never be as successful, accomplished or fabulous as La Laura so they have to denigrate something about her; whether it's her luggage (! How is LV anything vulgar?) or her household help or her designs.
Hope it makes you feel better!

Oh, come on. Are we in middle school? It's possible to dislike someone without being jealous.

I couldn't care less about her mothering skills. It's none of my business how she raises her kids. No matter what mothers do, they're criticized for it. It's unfair, and harping on it is just piling on.

However, on PR Laura came across as a bossy, nosy, elitist, petty dilettante, and she bugs the hell out of me.

To the Anon who keeps bashing Laura:

Please be quiet.

I don't like her either, but that's no cause to be means with absolutely no basis whatsoever for your mean-spirited and dyspeptic pick, pick, picking.

If you MUST be negative, at least do it with some creativity. Suggest, for instance, that you just KNOW she didn't write this book because she couldn't possibly pull that kind of quality out of her ass. Make sure you say it without asking her first, too. Then, GO ON NATIONAL TV AND SAY IT without even clarifying with her first whether it is even true.

And speaking of creativity, anybody notice how Demi Moore's photoshopper seems to really get around? Check out the 24-year old face here. No wrinkles around the eyes, and the ears seem to have been shaved, also. I just Googled some images of Laura and, gotta say, some serious fiddling seems to have taken place here. The woman is 46, according to Wikipedia. She should insist on looking at least a LITTLE more her age.

Now I know what was so disconcerting about the cover. If it hadn't been for the "Project Runway Finalist" tag, I would not have recognized her from this image.

Even the poor turtle's skin on his noggin seems to have been lightened.

AND WHERE'S THE TURTLE POOP? Man, am I disappointed.

Never really cared for what I know of her (which, admittedly, isn't much, just what she showed on PR and a handful of her columns that I've read), but I wish her the best. The TV show sounds like it could go either way. Family sitcoms are generally complete crap, but then again, I really like "Modern Family," so it's always possible that "her" show could be something special.

I really don't get all the hate going around here. It isn't that I don't agree with the adjectives people are using, to some extent, but seriously, people, you know how much about this woman? On TV, peoples' personalities are completely exaggerated by editing; in her column, she's usually trying to seem particularly funny or insightful (as pretty much anyone and everyone with a column or blog does), so that exaggerates her personality and lifestyle, as well. I wouldn't want to have lunch with Laura, but to say such spiteful things about someone you don't know seems unnecessary. If you don't like her, don't buy her book and don't watch the show if it makes it onto the air. Don't come on the blog of her friends and trash her for no reason. It's fine to state your opinion, that's what comments are for, but just... Keep it civil.

I have to commend Laura for doing everything conceivable within her power to extend those 15 minutes.

However, on PR Laura came across as a bossy, nosy, elitist, petty dilettante, and she bugs the hell out of me.


Right? Every time I see a tweet about a Laura post I just get tired. I was over her when she was on PR, I don't think her Daily Beast columns are that funny (and I don't think "busy rich woman" is a particularly fascinating take on motherhood) but to each his own.

I don't hold any particular animosity, I guess my attitude could best be summed up as, "Still? Really?"

Logan said: I wouldn't want to have lunch with Laura, but to say such spiteful things about someone you don't know seems unnecessary. If you don't like her, don't buy her book and don't watch the show if it makes it onto the air. Don't come on the blog of her friends and trash her for no reason. It's fine to state your opinion, that's what comments are for, but just... Keep it civil.

Seriously, you're right, of course. I don't even know why I read the post. It's best to ignore her since she bugs me so much.

RE: The show, should it ever be made. Patricia Clarkson looks like she belongs in Laura's world, be I agree with personette. Tea Leoni would be perfect in a comedy about her.

It's pretty funny, that the anons (etc) actually think it's not obvious who they are and what their motivations are.

That's funny in a 'laughing at', not 'laughing with' kind of way.

--GothamTomato

Maura said...

It's possible to dislike someone without being jealous...However, on PR Laura came across as a bossy, nosy, elitist, petty dilettante, and she bugs the hell out of me.

Anne said...

Right? Every time I see a tweet about a Laura post I just get tired. I was over her when she was on PR, I don't think her Daily Beast columns are that funny (and I don't think "busy rich woman" is a particularly fascinating take on motherhood) but to each his own.

Amen. Just wanted to point out that I agree and neither these ladies nor myself are anonymous. Thanks!

I enjoy her blog; I'm sure the book will be quite entertaining. But you know, I wish she looked a bit older and more real on the cover of her book. Plastickifying a mother of six to that extent is kind of yucky. She's a real woman, and deserves to look like one.

It's possible to dislike someone without being jealous...However, on PR Laura came across as a bossy, nosy, elitist, petty dilettante, and she bugs the hell out of me.

Amen. Do I think vintage LV is absolutely fabulous? Hell yes!

However, I'm surrounded by these elitist women (and men) on a daily basis in my area and I find them and their ever-present smug smirks obnoxious.

Like I said before, a view from the other side of "The Nanny Diaries." Which was TOTALLY on target, believe me.

I've loved Laura ever since PR visited her house and I saw the Monty Python quote on her wall. Anyone exposing their children to classic british comedy is gold in my book.

Now, about that kindle edition of the book? :)

I'm neither a mother nor "fabulous" so I probably can't relate to anything in this book. I don't really care for Laura's fluffy, chick-lit writing style either. Nonetheless, I'm sure there is a market out there for her work and many a mom will be packing this book to the beach. This book probably won't be on many people's bookshelves five years from now, but Laura's going to rake in the cash. Whether you have talent or a gimmick, you've gotta use what you've got to pay the bills, eh?

I think it's kind of interesting to see how Laura's reality TV exposure on PR has morphed her from aspiring fashion designer to author.

I am also curious about her chops as an architect: does she ever talk about her achievements in that profession? I'd like to see some of her work and get an idea of what her aesthetic is.

Love her! Can't wait for the book!

seems to me that laura has always been open about needing HELP. (i note, too, that she credits her co-writer or ghost on the proposal, which almost NO celebs do.) contrast laura's "hell yeah it takes a village" attitude with that of the celebs (who also write parenting books!) who act like they can do it all. far more refreshing. and she IS funny! i think she'll be honest about picking your battles and letting stuff slide in a way that's helpful to ALL helicopter parents. and i like that she enjoys pissing people off. fun!

I can't believe anyone is cowardly and dumb enough to knock laura anonymously on this blog.

she's fabulous.

have a diamond, darlings.

Always enjoy Laura, and I can't wait to read the book, but... dudes. That cover belongs at "Photoshop Disaters." The body proportions from the knees down and the knees up are really, really off. Laura has great legs, but her knees are not half the size of her head.

I'm a little biased against her: having been forced to share a subway ride with her and her nanny and her little hellions, it is obvious to me that she has a very, um, hand's off approach to parenting.

I'm a little biased against her: having been forced to share a subway ride with her and her nanny and her little hellions, it is obvious to me that she has a very, um, hand's off approach to parenting.

Oh, NO FAIR!!!! Dish girl!!!! What happened? What were the boys doing? Did the nanny look completely strung out and harassed?

Oh yeah, and WTH were they doing on the subway?

Anne

Well--I can imagine and ANYONE'S 6 (or is it 7?) children on a subway will make a racket. But that's beside the point.
I have been a mom for 30 years, and I've come to appreciate people like Laura. I'm sure when I was knee-deep in diapers and spit-up and I saw moms like Laura, I hated them, was green with envy, and felt crappy about the lousy job I was doing as a mom, since I wasn't "fabulous".
But now, past the throes of parenting, I am secure in knowing I did a damn good job with my children, and that all of us have our own circumstances and style. I would never bash another woman because her way of parenting is different than mine. Laura is an interesting and talented woman, and I look forward to reading all about her style. And really, all the vitriol directed towards her comes from envy, fear and insecurity. Get over it.
Also--I vote for Kristen Johnston to do the sitcom (hometown girl!)

I like the humor of the cover, and I do like Laura, but anyone who carries around an 18,000 dollar Hermes Birkin bag ain't gonna be giving me any advice about motherhood. Wouldn't waste a penny on this book.

& there's a big difference between hired help & having the help take responsibility for raising your children. I sincerely doubt, by what I've read & seen, Laura does the latter. Given that's the proof most of us have (TLo excluded since they know her personally), what do you possess about her to dispute that assertion?

Gee, I don't know, if I had to go away for medical reasons, or rehab, I would hesitate to leave my VERY young kids for as long as Project Runway took. She left for her ego. Not a good mom, in any way, shape or form. I will pass, too, and join in the chorus of I don't understand the fascination with a rich girl who doesn't take care of her own kids writing about motherhood.

Doesn't the cognitive dissonance bother anyone??? Sychophants galore on this thread!!

It's pretty funny, that the anons (etc) actually think it's not obvious who they are and what their motivations are.

That's funny in a 'laughing at', not 'laughing with' kind of way.

--GothamTomato

Hey, I am not anonymous, and never hid my dislike of Laura having ANYthing to say about parenthood. As a very middle class mother who has sent her oldest son to an Ivy league school from a small rural school, I strongly disapprove of her approach to parenting; it is almost laughable, except that her kids are going to pay the price eventually for all of Laura's "fabulosity"!!! I teach, and kids pay when Mom is so damn self-absorbed, and they are raised by nannies. Happens every single time.

I feel badly for her kids. It's all about Laura and her oversized ego.

Um, Asukah ? Did you notice this is a FASHION blog? Laura Bennett is known for her stint on a FASHION reality show? She is trying to make a name for herself as a FASHION designer?

And, uh, did you happen to think, in the world of fashion, having good taste is a relevant skill?

Hell, yes, I can and do and SHOULD judge her and any other self-promoting fashion celebrity if they have dreadful taste in accessories.

-victoria

Anonymous said...

Gee, I don't know, if I had to go away for medical reasons, or rehab, I would hesitate to leave my VERY young kids for as long as Project Runway took. She left for her ego. Not a good mom, in any way, shape or form.

So was Jeffrey a bad father for appearing on the show? Or Vincent? Or Epperson? Or is this particular criticism only reserved for women?

Doesn't the cognitive dissonance bother anyone???
Irony.

The folks railing against those who are judging Laura harshly have to remember that Laura put herself (and her family and her lifestyle) out there for public consumption. She is seeking fame as a means to promote her ventures, be it fashion or writing, and when you put yourself out there like that, rabid and sharp criticism comes along with the territory. Do the Laura-lovers who take offense to the critics also bash Tom and Lorenzo when they are harsh in their critiques? All of us commenting know what this game is about. And Laura knows it better than all of us put together. She put herself "on stage" for the public to love, hate, or something in the middle.

And heck, yeah, I am anonymous. If that is so troublesome, then ask TLo to require every commentor to put a photo, full name, address, and phone number with their post.

Wow. Even though I dislike Laura as much as you can dislike someone you don't really know or care about (and who might not really exist, at least as she is portrayed in the media by herself and others), but I would never, never, never say that she is a "bad mother" because she went on Project Runway. What about Korto? She's a mother, right? And I'm sure there were others, as well as mothers (and fathers) who have gone on "Survivor," "Top Chef," and other reality shows that require them to be away from home for months at a time. How about people in the military? People who have jobs that require extensive travel? People who work and have "latchkey" kids?

There is one thing I agree with Laura about. Raising children does not require that mom (and/or dad) be a constant presence, hovering over the little darlings and worrying about them and protecting them from life in every possible way. It scares me to see parents who can't even let go when their "babies" are in college.

I had a stay at home mother (and father, after he took an early retirement when I was about 10). Our parents didn't spend all that much time with us. We were in our rooms, playing or listening to music, or out and about, playing with our friends and going all over the place without parental supervision. That is how children become independent. And the world is not as dangerous as the public believes it is (unless you live in certain high-crime, poverty-blighted areas).

OK, I'll get off my soapbox now. But it really annoys me when women are still judged for placing importance on their careers (or choosing to stay at home with their children) in this day and age.

Great news on all counts. Brava, Laura! You deserve it.

I looked at the Random House site, and the "Project Runway Finalist" note isn't on the cover there. I wonder if it's just being considered as opposed to a final thing. Since the book isn't shipping until April (?)...

Maura said: Don't come on the blog of her friends and trash her for no reason. It's fine to state your opinion, that's what comments are for, but just... Keep it civil.


I have to pick up on this point. "Don't come on the blog of her friends and"? What, do you think she should be somehow protected because she's TLo's friend?

I understand that TLo must cringe whenever their fave gal gets bashed, but TLo does understand that folks have very strong opinions about her, both positive and negative, and still offered her up as the topic of conversation notwithstanding.

Considering the unusual amount of negativity that elicited this time around, however, they might think twice before doing that again soon. It seems that the negativity that we're all feeling about this season of PR is bleeding over into our commentary about all the other topics as well. It's like we're depressed en masse. This PR season is so awful that it's making some of us crazy, pissy, and/or mean.

I do admire Laura for poking fun at her economically privileged lifestyle. But what I think is happening here is that it grates more on people in these harsh economic times. Some folks evidently just get so annoyed at the comparison that it's tough for them to wish her well when they're not doing so well. To me, it seems that a lot of the sniping going on here comes from frustration, not from genuine dislike of her because she's an idiot or a stuck-up jerk. And, p.s., she's neither.

All that aside, Laura is unquestionably an excellent writer. Her prose is focused and tight, and she has an extraordinary ear for the humorous and the ridiculously absurd. I actually do hope that her book does well.

But, by putting herself out there, she voluntarily made herself a target of both admiration and lesser emotions. She's fair game on this site, and not everybody is going to be kind. That's life in the limelight. I do agree that people should at least try to be civil, but disagree with the implication that she should be treated with kid gloves because she's TLo's friend.

MouseAnony said... Maura said: Don't come on the blog of her friends and trash her for no reason. It's fine to state your opinion, that's what comments are for, but just... Keep it civil.

Just to clarify, MouseAnony, I didn't say that. I quoted it in order to respond to Logan's comment. I said he was right because I agree it's always better to keep it civil, and because I believe ignoring her is the way to go, not because I think no one should say anything negative about her just because she has fans here.

Anonymous @ 11/12/09 6:39 PM said... Gee, I don't know, if I had to go away for medical reasons, or rehab, I would hesitate to leave my VERY young kids for as long as Project Runway took. She left for her ego. Not a good mom, in any way, shape or form. I will pass, too, and join in the chorus of I don't understand the fascination with a rich girl who doesn't take care of her own kids writing about motherhood.

Doesn't the cognitive dissonance bother anyone??? Sychophants galore on this thread!!

Not a sycophant, by any means. But, as Ellen M asked, what about Korto? For that matter, what about Epperson? His child was very young when he was on the show. I don't recall anyone criticizing him for leaving for a month. (Not that I think he and Korto should be criticized for it. Just, be consistent.)

I doubt Laura locked the kids out of the house and made them wander the streets, digging in dumpsters for food, while she was on PR. They have a father, and a nanny. Since Laura apparently neglects her kids, I have to assume they're pretty attached to the help. They weren't left with strangers.

I'm not interested in her book. I'm not interested in any book about parenthood. But the fact that she has people helping her with her kids doesn't mean she has nothing to say about being a mother.

And now I'm annoyed that I feel compelled to defend her.

Maura said: And now I'm annoyed that I feel compelled to defend her.

11/13/09 9:42 AM


Ditto!

Ooooops. Sorry for attributing that quote to you.

Your line was so unexpectedly hilarious that it made me laugh out loud.

I would rather not have felt compelled to defend her, either.

Anonymous said...

The folks railing against those who are judging Laura harshly have to remember that Laura put herself (and her family and her lifestyle) out there for public consumption. She is seeking fame as a means to promote her ventures, be it fashion or writing, and when you put yourself out there like that, rabid and sharp criticism comes along with the territory. Do the Laura-lovers who take offense to the critics also bash Tom and Lorenzo when they are harsh in their critiques?

Tom and Lorenzo have the balls to attach their names to their critiques and the class to not go so far as to question whether or not someone is a good mother.

I think the greatest thing about the internet is the forum it creates for people to voice their opinions. Tom and Lorenzo have become my friends and they generously continue to support my various (and often unexpected) careers, but I doubt that they expect their readers to always agree with them. Where would the fun be in that?

As for me, I willingly put myself in the public spectrum and I completely accept the fact that not everybody will agree with me, condone my choices, or even be able to hold back a cringe at the mention of my name. I'm a big girl, I can take it. Luckily, I like myself enough not to worry about whether or not anyone else likes me.

Motherhood is a very personal and emotional subject and I am completely aware of the range of reactions I elicit when I write about it. And frankly I must confess, I have a bit of an "if I haven't pissed someone off by five, I haven't done my job" attitude. That being said, I am always honest and forthright and never say anything I don't truly believe.

But here's a hint. If you really hate me, don't comment at all, because the negative comments are the ones I really enjoy.

Vive la difference.

Hey I am not going to knock the LV luggage, I would love to rock up with an armful of it. And vintage? Even better! For someone who asked how you travel with it, here's the irony - you have to put it inside protective cases, which pretty much defeats the point, but who cares?!

Shoot. I was going to post a comment about how much I enjoy Laura's writing and perspective, but now I see she only enjoys the negative ones. Sigh. What to do?

OK, here goes. I'm mad at Laura because she hasn't made anything for me to wear. I'm a lifelong athlete and will never be smaller than a size 10 thanks to my genetics. I also have breasts larger than an A cup. So there, that's the only negative thing I can come up with.

thrilled to see laura responded.

while i wasn't always the greatest fan, i did admire most of the work i saw you (laura) produce while on pr. i also admire your confidence and your willingness to put yourself out there without any apologies.

(moving on to a more general comment...)
i think a lot of the hate does stem from jealousy. it's easy to hate because she has it all and the majority of us don't. i'm a single parent and i've worked my ass off to get to a point where i feel at least somewhat comfortable and relatively secure. yes, it would be very easy to see someone like laura who has that help and has all those resources and hate her for putting a book out there that is ostensibly about parenting. but it's HER parenting. HER stories. i don't see that any of this has been put out as a how-to-manual.

if the haters take her stories as criticisms of their lives or as a "i'm so much more fabulous than you and here's why..." then maybe they should be examining their own insecurities.

i have to agree with those that pointed out how it is apparently easy to criticize laura for "leaving" her kids for so long but apparently when the men do this, and they DO and HAVE, there is not a single peep of criticism for it. it probably wouldn't be my choice, but i'm also not in a position to throw myself into a reality tv show competition. it's just not my bag.

honestly, who gives a crap if she has a birkin or lv luggage. i can guarantee if you critics were offered a birkin for free, you'd take it in a heartbeat.

i originally wasn't going to post a comment on this blog post because i was somewhat ambivalent about the post. to me, her book is akin to the girlfriend's guide series...which i loved, but i'm very much past that stage. however, seeing how much ugliness was puked all over this comment section, i wanted to add my two cents.

i'm by no means well off, but there is no reason i can't be just as fabulous as i want (and can afford) to be. why hate someone else for doing what they can with what they have, even if they happen to have much more than you? who CARES!

i may not be the best parent in the world, but i'm certainly not the worst and i can guarantee there is NO ONE commenting here that is in a position to rightly judge another woman (or man) for her parenting.

Wow. I'm so glad I haven't been following the comments. And so envious of Laura's 'tude!

Wow...some of these comments, just wow. Makes you wonder why people read posts about a woman they're "so tired of" and "couldn't care less about" and then take the EXTRA time to write a comment about it. I guess this is what unemployment does to people.

Geez, what's with people today? I enjoy LB. I don't have kids so I couldn't care less about raising them, but I love her attitude about life. More power to her.

Oh, and to whomever suggested that a lack of wrinkles on a 46 year old woman suggests some photo touch-ups: some of us are just blessed with good genes.

/47 and wrinkle-free

Who knew that an interview with Laura Bennett would elicit such a response! I didn't realize she was such a polarizing presence!
Folks, lighten up. I'm sure Laura's everyday life isn't all fun and sarcasm. Anyone who has ever had, or been part of a family has many funny stories to tell. She shares hers with the public. I'm sure she doesn't have such a casual attitude in the middle of the "adventures" in parenting that she writes about. It's usually afterward that we can put things into perspective and see the humor in it. I have 4 kids myself, and I enjoy reading her columns, even though we have vastly different lifestyles. She writes things that parents who have been in the trenches can appreciate and laugh at, because even though we don't have nannies and a fabulous career, we still know the unpredictability of life with children and her funny stories remind me of funny stories of my own kids and that makes me smile.

"Gee, I don't know, if I had to go away for medical reasons, or rehab, I would hesitate to leave my VERY young kids for as long as Project Runway took."

Oh, Anonymous, dear. That is so sad. Basically, you're saying that your value is only as a mother and that your health and welfare is not important. But don't impose that attitude on Laura or anyone else.

"i think a lot of the hate does stem from jealousy."

I disagree. I would not put myself in her place and if I had money, I would not live like she does. I don't think she is especially ostentatious, for a rich person, but she also doesn't seem very self-aware.

And I don't think anybody said that a lack of wrinkles on a 40-something woman is evidence of photoshopping. It is on Laura, however. She is far from line-free and we all know it! (I'm sure she would be the first to admit it, too.)

The "Project Runway finalist" line on the cover of the book is not really out of place. For most people, that IS her claim to fame. Also, she mentioned that the book includes PR stories, so it isn't like she's trying to put distance between herself and the show.

P.S. (you knew it was coming) Mouse Anony, I think you hit the nail on the head (especially regarding the economy) about the strong feelings being expressed in these comments.

I also think it's a bit of a "why won't she just go away?" like many express about Lindsay Lohan and other celebrities.

@anonymous/victoria - honey, take a vicodin. You'll feel much better.

@Gotham Tomato - "I got a picture of Laura being played by Kristin Johnston" YES!!!

@the LB hater crowd. Get over yourselves. I've met her in person Have any of you? She's funny, wry, self-deprecating and a great mother to her kids. Jealousy is an ugly thing, and so are your comments.

Gorgeous Things said: @the LB hater crowd. Get over yourselves. I've met her in person Have any of you? She's funny, wry, self-deprecating and a great mother to her kids. Jealousy is an ugly thing, and so are your comments.

Or it could just be a difference of opinion. There could be some people who are "just jealous", but saying it's all due to jealousy is as insulting as calling all of her fans "sycophants". Several people who don't like her have defended her when she was accused of being a bad mother.

This is just getting silly. Some people love her, some don't. There's no reason for either group to take that personally.

What I don't get is why people who don't like her feel the need to keep coming back to this post. If I read something on the internet that doesn't appeal to me, I skip over it and find something that does. Even if I were to go so far as to comment regarding my dislike, I can't imagine doing so more than once. To come back again and again to reiterate your dislike really does make you sound jealous. Especially when so much of the criticism revolves around how much money she has.

Who cares about relating to her lifestyle? The point of writing a book like this is, do you have amusing stories to tell? It's not supposed to be an advice book. I think she's really funny.

Hey Laura, I hope these people buy your book so they can tell you how much they don't like you or your book.

YAAYYY!!!! I will buy it and study it extensively for the good of my hypothetical future-children. <3

Yay! for Laura!! She fits the author role just as she does those beautiful manolos.
She is a wonderful person/ role model and I wish her infinite success.
She is the most realest! (hip hop) American woman and those kids are the luckiest kids in America. I bet they will all turn out to do more for their country than..(you know the rest).
We need more mothers like her. Go Girl!!

Love the cover